Nothing Stays The Same and Neither Should This . . . It’s Time

 

“Education needs to be recognized as an “organic” process-one that grows and expands not a “mechanical” process that too often remains static or slow moving at best.”            Sir Ken Robinson

 

We must view education through a different lens today. In times past and present education was and is still treated as a separate entity responsible to only itself for its governance. It has a job to do and is provided the resources to get that job done. We could say the same for health care services, the legal system, the penal system, transportation systems and defense systems. Although these systems are independent from one another there has always been an unwritten agreement there would be a collective sense of nationalism that directed some loose idea of community.

As technology speeds up our transformation from a fragmented community of independent service structures we are now faced with the reality that such a system cannot continue to function as it has. We don’t have the resources nor the infrastructure to continue to regulate such an entity. Up to now we haven’t shared our resources with each other. In deed we have competed against one another for those very resources ensuring that none of us will have enough of what we need to get the job done properly.

The managers, administrators, and leaders of our service structures want us to continue to follow their beliefs they know how to guide their agencies better than anyone else. However, by all appearances we are slowly and painfully recognizing that our major public services are now becoming more dependent on each for the other services necessary to provide a better more efficient over-all system but without any formal plan to do so. What’s left–Chaos. Services have become more expensive and in some cases less effective. The common expectation and refrain now is ‘do more with less.’ We’re a wealthy country-we shouldn’t have to ‘do more with less.’

A question, then, remains and that is ‘Is this the best we can hope for? We believe that many are doing the best they can with what they have to work with.

Police services are now more dependent upon the mental health services system. The judicial services are now becoming more dependent upon understanding and seeking the support and knowledge of mental health professionals in order to understand more concretely just who and what they are dealing with. The penal system needs some guidance and direction around what is the best course of treatment for those who suffer from mental health problems who are housed in their facilities. Child care services don’t have enough personnel to do their jobs as they would like too.

Like it or not agencies are becoming more dependent on each other and the expertise of others to offer the best possible service to the citizens who find themselves in need of the ‘treatment’ business they each offer. Unfortunately many of these agencies end up ‘dumping’ their clients on other services in order to keep their costs down resulting in waiting lists for services of up to 6 months for what should take 6 weeks. The judicial system finds it difficult to offer trial dates of up to a year for offences that need to be heard much sooner than that.

 Who takes the lead?

Education is at the heart of the ‘Social Survival’ organism which will need to become a unified service provider as opposed to a conglomerate. The current method of trying to provide all the social services demanded of it is too competitive internally to be as effective as it could be or needs to be. Health care competes with mental health and police services competes with fire protection services and they compete with judicial services for funds just to maintain their budgets and yet face greater demand for services. They are told to ‘do more with less.’ The result is a system that struggles to maintain quality services. Wait times at our hospitals are unacceptable. Waiting to hear a case in court can take years. Booking an appointment to see a mental health professional can take months meanwhile the suicide rates and the rates of separation and divorce are more often destroying our family structures which in turn affect our legal system. It is not difficult to link most of these concerns with an Education system that is from another era. It is broken and a new one needs to take its rightful place at the ‘head of the table’.

It is time to share the responsibility of creating a new paradigm, a new pedagogy and a new curriculum regarding how and what will a new educational system look like and what will be its purpose. We will need to define what the purpose of educating our learners will be and we will need to be able to do this working in concert with the other stakeholders.

We need to be very careful that the politicians and those who stand to gain the most don’t hijack education from those who deserve it and need it the most in order to be productive and happy in their lives. We are the only ones who can make a difference in the world we live in. Let’s not give away the opportunity and the right to fashion the world we want to have.

Anyways, that’s how I see it. Comments can be sent to me at: jim.lifechoice @ gmail.com or check out my web site at jimcloughley.com

 

What You Need To Know About Blended Families . . .

A couple of facts to consider: there are now more blended families in existence then there are ‘traditional’ families that have one set of parents.

Often times in blended families there are problems with each member trying to decide where they fit in. Behavior that was OK before may not be acceptable in the new family setting. Territory and roles get redistributed or re-defined. What was ‘mine’ before may not be now. Family value systems and belief systems differ. There are a myriad of problems and issues that need to be navigated if this is to work. One would hope that many of these issues would have been addressed before any effort to blend the family takes place. But there are issues that come up after the effort to blend families takes place. Some of these can’t be addressed because the personalities of the family members aren’t always predictable. What about pets-do they come along for the ride or are they not welcome because the other parent has pets already in the ‘new home’ and they might not get along very well. Who gets rid of what? Doesn’t sound like much but blended families have been defeated for much less.

The following are four of the more obvious and destructive hurdles to get over.  It often matters whether or not Mom is moving into Dads house or Dad is moving into Moms house. Adults can be just as territorial as kids can be. The parent moving ‘in’ is often the one expected to be more conciliatory when it comes to accepting new arrangements, disciplinary decisions or values affecting the functioning of the kids as a whole. Not fair perhaps but often true.

  • The natural response from a step-parent who is moving into to a new living situation, thereby creating a blended family, often favors the other partners kids trying to ‘make friends’ with the kids that are living there.  In doing so they sometimes, unwittingly, alienate their own kids in the process.  By doing so the authority, standards, values and the ‘rules’ that existed are compromised creating some confusion in the house. That means that the two parents have got some serious issues to sort out and quickly. They need to find a way to mend the breach equitably.
  •  Another major problem arises when one parent feels or believes that the standards of behavior in the house are not fairly balanced between the children of each family. “You are harder on my kids than your own kids” or ” it’s seems OK for your kids to do  . .?   but not for mine.”
  • The other part of the same issue occurs when one parent feels he or she is working harder to make things work than the other. Consequently the harder working parent is seen as being too tough by the kids themselves.  The kids end up favoring one parent over the other usually the less demanding one.
  • It is easy to get caught up in the every day workings of a new blended family. The parents work overtime trying to make all things perfect. In the mean time one of the parents loses sight of the amazing bond that can exist between a biological parent and his or her children. That one parent may side with one of his or her kids  to protect them against one of the other kids or one of the partners. In either case it becomes divisive.
  • The fourth problem can be the constant interference by the biological parent who is now out of the family picture. Whether it is due to anger, grief, or sadness the parent who is left out will create havoc and disruption and could use his or her kids to cause constant friction between the blended family members. Kids against kids. Kids against the other biological parent. Kids against the ‘new parent’.

So how to deal with these problems. Communicate often and clearly with each other.

  • Now is the time for everyone to have a chance to speak about what the experience is like for them so far. They need to trust that they are free to speak openly but respectfully about what is going on for them.
  • Have family meetings each week to talk about things that came up or discuss ideas about how to make things better
  • The step parents need to model appropriate behavior and skill when trying to sort out problems or issues that are concerning.
  • The step parents need to speak about the family and the members as being equal to and each as important as the other. The step parents have to be careful at all times and in all actions as not favoring one child over another regardless of whose child is being disciplined.
  • The step parents need to decide on parenting techniques that both will use so that a consistent common front is demonstrated. NEVER challenge one another in from of the kids. If there is a disagreement in style or substance sort it out behind closed doors and in private.
  • Months before the move to join families happens get the kids together to spend time with each other-to get to know a bit about each other–their music likes, their sports likes or what their hobbies are before they actually share the same space.
  • Step parents need to agree ahead of time to establish boundaries for acceptable behavior and they are presented to the kids as one voice–a common front.

There are many more things that can be done but don’t try to do too much too soon and don’t rush the process. Let it grow at it’s own pace.

Anyways, that’s how I see things. Thanks for dropping by — Comments can be sent to: jim.lifechoice@gmail.com.

All the best, Jim

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Fatherlessness Can Kill Our Children

“More than 20 million children live in a home without the physical presence of a father.  Millions more have dads who are physically present, but emotionally absent.  If it were classified as a disease, fatherlessness would be an epidemic worthy of attention as a national emergency.”–fathers.com 2012

We spend so much time condemning, chastising, and berating fathers who just ‘walk away’ that we don’t stop long enough to consider what exactly is going on with them. We see the headlines or read the story part way through and then don’t finish it thinking we know how the story ends. We get angry at  fathers for being low lifes who don’t deserve kids yet we seldom ask how can we help stop this from happening. We recycle old ideas and programs, pretty them up some, and then throw some money at the problem and declare that we have developed a new program or approach that will help to fix the problem but nothing changes. We don’t reach out to fathers to get their side of the story and we certainly don’t reach out to hear what the kids have to say. We don’t ask how to help but rather seem more interested with who is to blame.

Are there some moms out there who need to be helped–absolutely. Are there some men-fathers- who are guilty of abandoning their families-absolutely. Is that the case for all dad’s–absolutely not.

There are many dads who want to be involved in their sons lives who are legally prevented from doing so. Rather counter-productive in the end and its the child who is punished because the parents can’t get their stuff together..

How do we lessen the burden that many moms experience as a single parent? How do we do this without crushing any opportunity for a father to parent his son?

But what amazes me most is how the health systems and the legal systems can’t figure out why there is such a horrific drug problem among our kids. Why is there so much violence and growing suicide rates? Why are gangs becoming almost unstoppable?

Let’s take a look at some of the side effects for a kid who grows up without a father and then ask ourselves those same questions over again. Imagine being a kid and facing these issues everyday. In the U.S. they describe fatherlessness as having reached epidemic proportions. There are approximately 20 Million kids who are fatherless.

Poverty–Children in father-absent homes are almost four times more likely to be poor. In 2011, 12 percent of children in married-couple families were living in poverty, compared to 44 percent of children in mother-only families. Fathers are important too.

Drug and Alcohol Abuse–The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services states, “Fatherless children are at a dramatically greater risk of drug and alcohol abuse.”

Physical and Emotional Health–Children of single-parent homes are more than twice as likely to commit suicide.

Educational Achievement–Children living with their married biological father tested at a significantly higher level than those living with a non biological father.

71% of high school dropouts are fatherless; fatherless children have more trouble academically, scoring poorly on tests of reading, mathematics, and thinking skills; children from father-absent homes are more likely to be truant from school, more likely to be excluded from school, more likely to leave school at age 16, and less likely to attain academic and professional qualifications in adulthood.

Crime–A study of 109 juvenile offenders indicated that family structure significantly predicts delinquency.

Sexual Activity and Teen Pregnancy

Being raised by a single mother raises the risk of teen pregnancy, marrying with less than a high school degree, and forming a marriage where both partners have less than a high school degree.

Perhaps if we were to actually pay attention to evidence like this and if we decided to deal with the issues as a responsible society void of prejudice, bias, religion and politics and began to look at the issues attached as social issues that involve human lives worthy of our attention, energy and care we would be better off.

Let’s try to put the true welfare of the child FIRST for a change instead of considering what sound bite or position will get you votes. Let’s help BOTH moms and Dads be responsible for the wee life that they each helped to make. The responsibility of nourishing that life doesn’t stop at the front door or a border somewhere. Moms need to drop the anger and the outrage. They need to stop using their kids as a ‘tool’ to hurt the other parent. Moms need to help support and promote that relationship between fathers and sons not destroy or discourage it. It would be better for Moms in the long run as well. Legal systems need to stop punishing dads and come up with a better approach that encourages a co-operative approach. Parents don’t have to like each other they just need to put the needs of the kid ahead of their own.

Fathers need to step up and take care of business meaning looking after their family. First priority-bar none. If mom is the full time parent then help her do the job. Give her what she needs to do the best she can. If dad wont do the right thing then lets make sure that Mom has ALL the resources she needs to do what’s important.

Lets encourage parents to stop making the kids suffer for what the parents can’t sort out. It really is the parents who need to grow up not the kids.

Anyways, that’s how I see things.

All the best and thanks for stopping by–Jim

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Truth Talkin’ Thursday: Episode #102

Join Jane and I in our discussion about being able to just say “NO” to our kids and how many parents make the mistake of trying to be friends with their kids when what they need to have is parents who love them and care for them and who are ready to participate in their child’s education around learning the tough life lessons that will keep them safe and healthy. They don’t need more friends they need parents who can tell them like it is.

Click on the arrow below to activate the video and then let us know what and how you feel about what we have discussed.  jim.lifechoice@gmail.com  OR  jterdik@hotmail.com

 

Kids Need Parents Not More Friends. . .

“A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself — and especially to feel, or not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at any moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to – letting a person be what he really is.”—Jim Morrison

There is little that goes on in our lives today, if your are a parent, that creates more excitement, disagreement, and conversation than the discussion that ensues about whether or not parents should be their kids friend or remain their parent. There are also a number of misconceptions as to what that means. It is not black and white. It is not cut and dried. But it can get complicated if one of the parents or both for that matter can’t see the distinctions.

Is it possible to have a close, meaningful, active and fun loving relationship with your kids and yet retain a parent-child posture with clear boundaries and responsibilities? Absolutely. Whose the adult here and who is the child? The adult needs to establish, reinforce and demonstrate those boundaries often in helpful, nurturing and caring ways. It is up to the adult to present the characteristics of what the relationship with his/her children will look like and the purpose it will  serve. For some children a ‘friendship’ with Mom or Dad can be very confusing. Let’s consider the purpose or functions of parents. Parents are challenged and expected to be mentors, teachers, protectors and role models for their sons regarding how they need to act around others especially females and the importance of respecting others and their rights as human beings.

If your child is female then Mom needs to demonstrate what is appropriate and what is not. Dad needs to help her understand what to expect from a male and how she needs and deserves to be treated. He also needs to model that behavior when interacting with Mom. Our children need us to lead the way as their parents in this regard. Parents need to model appropriate behavior when settling disputes and disagreements with other people when in public or over the side yard fence. They need to model appropriate public respect and behavior for themselves and others in a way that is not punishing or embarrassing.

Parents also have experience to draw on so when junior asks the tough questions about relationships or what is right or wrong and why, he/she will get the correct answers or responses. Friends don’t do this kind of stuff nor are they supposed to. Many are also not equipped emotionally or mentally to provide responses that are clear, concise and understood. Friends seldom say ‘no’ where parents often need or feel the need to do so. If a parent says ‘no’ then they need to be clear about why they are saying ‘no’. These are the opportunities that present themselves as learning opportunities–another ‘something’ that friends are not able to manage.

Instilling a sense of self-confidence along with the ability to self-assess their skills and talents is extremely important to the overall development of a child. My belief is that this is one of the things that is lacking in many of our kids today. Too many feel entitled to success some how. It seems as though they were never helped to understand that they need to earn success.

The school system itself needs to own much of this criticism because of it’s unwillingness to treat and teach our kids as whole learners. ( To know more about this go to jimcloughley.com –click on Programs–Help Our Kids Learn) . Present day school systems are content to deal with education from the neck up believing that more data crammed into their heads is the way to go and that rote learning, which is an outdated and ineffectual way of teaching our kids today, is the way to learn. Having said this it makes the role of the parent all that more important today.

Our kids have friends to play with and to dream with and to experience ‘kids things’ with. They need parents to help them live life on life’s terms. This by no means suggests that parents can’t have a wonderful, close, meaningful, fulfilling, and fun filled relationship with their kids. It just means that there is more to the job than being an entertainment coordinator for your kids. Parents are the most important asset and resource that our kids will ever have. Let’s give them what they need to succeed. Their friends will take care of the less important stuff.

Anyways, that’s how I see things. Agree or disagree send me your comments and your thoughts to: jim.lifechoice@gmail.com. Thanks for stopping by.

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Get Him Outta Here . . .

It wasn’t that long ago in real terms but it seems like a life-time ago that Donald Trump was elected king south of the border. When his journey, and our nightmare started, I remember a rally he was at where he had security toss out a dissenter. He uttered those famous words ‘throw that guy outta here–yeh throw him out.’ Thus began his constant assault on freedoms and rights and it has not slowed since. He has managed to discredit the media in the eyes of many and once that happens we are all screwed.  He has not been kind to the country or the world for that matter. He spreads chaos and discontent wherever he goes. For me, he re-in-forces the belief that money cannot and does not by class.

Beyond that, however, and if that is not enough, a growing number of people suggest that he will go down as one of the all time worst representatives of the US people and what they used to stand for in the world. He has sold out the reputation the US had cultivated and held so dear–that the country was fair, powerful and could be innovative. Now they are just bullies.

Sadly those in a position to sanction him choose not to do that. Perhaps for the fear he will find a way to survive or the promise of mutual greed or both–you choose. Instead they support the idea of  combining politics and economics to create foreign policy at the expense of their own (declining popularity) support base. When interviewed he continues to prove his basic ignorance of several key issues and the environment is one of those issues. He has no clue about what his policies are doing nor, I believe, does he care. His support and pressure to support pipe lines, coal fired energy generators ( he promised 8 key coal producing states that he would put them back to work and 7 states believed him. Wyoming,West Virginia,Kentucky, Pennsylvania, Illinois, Montana, Texas, Indiana) and the growth of nuclear energy by building new reactors is dangerous not to mention costly and time consuming.

It takes approximately 5-6 years to build a nuclear reactor at an estimated cost of 8-9 billion dollars. Instead of investing in a future for his people that would ensure much more affordable energy with a never ending supply of renewable energy he chooses to cow tail to Saudi Arabia and the other oil producing and pollution producing countries around the globe that will continue to have the power to influence global policy by withholding or reducing oil supplies. Russia and China come to mind. I don’t look forward to those two having a say in how we live our lives according to which Autocracy you wish to listen to.  If we don’t believe that those two countries don’t have any sway with the Middle East producers then we are not paying attention to world politics. The evidence is there for us to see. Consider Trumps’ ‘kiss me quick’ relationship with Putin and the hollow threats of meaningful sanctions against China.

I have included a video link-about 3:30 in length that deserves our attention. Please watch it and then ask yourself why are we, here in Canada, not considering investing in the product outlined in the video rather than considering other more costly and environmentally disruptive and destructive sources of energy. If this process is what it reports to be it seems like a no brainer to me. It makes perfect sense to develop an industry that other countries would seriously consider using–almost zero emissions, cheaper, cleaner, would replace gas for our trucks, cars and airplanes with minimal disruption for auto makers, virtually an endless supply of basic product that currently causes a great deal of concern for our overall health (co2) and the health of the planet, and one that we would not have to spend a great deal of financial resources on trying to figure out how to minimize it’s presence.

How about you?

Anyways, that’s how I see things. Thanks for stopping by, All the best, Jim

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Truth Talkin’ Thursday: Episode #101

Jane and I decided to start off the next 100 episodes here with a chat about community-what it means to be in ‘community’ and how they are important to us as people. Do we need to be involved in ‘community’ in order to feel that we belong? How do you express your sense of community? I mentioned that I can be a part of a ‘community’ and yet not actually be a physical part. what are you feelings about ‘community’–do you feel as though you belong to a larger purpose and if you do then what happens to your individuality and the concept of being comfortable in your skin.

Check out the rest of our chat by clicking on the arrow on the link below. Thanks for stopping by–enjoy, All the best, Jim

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What Were They Thinking ? . . . (Re-posted From October 13, 2013)

In light of recent events south of us I went back to a past article I posted on a related topic. I don’t want this opening paragraph to come off like I am defending men or the decisions some make or have made. Not in the least. I offer this as an opinion or partial explanation as to these recent events and how confusing things can get. I also offer this thought for males and females both. Careful the places you find yourself–what are the messages that are being sent, received and acted upon or responded to.

Now that there is a new ass sitting on the Supreme Court bench it is safe to say that the rule of law and it’s meaning are in decline. If nothing else Kavanaugh should have been held in contempt of court for lying under oath about his drinking history. Those lies remain undisputed. Even if Ford’s story had too many claims that could not be proven under the rules and regulations laid out by the White House, he should have been held accountable for the ‘bullshit’ and the ‘B’ performance he put on at that table in that hall. And there is Trump in the background with that smug ugly face staring out at the world saying ‘hey, gotcha again.’ He is the absolute worst role model and the poorest example of strength and legitimacy that the citizens of the United States have ever had the misfortune of placing on the world stage for all to see.

As a parting thought here I thought that the hearings were worse than a cheap ‘B’ porn movie with the starring role played by a character called “Trump Kavanaugh”–just saying . . .

 

“What were they thinking. . . ?

Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this I find myself asking ‘what were they thinking?’

I have to admit that I am really confused, as a male and a human being about what the Y.U.N. chant thing was all about. But the big question for me was what the hell were these future pillars of society thinking about when they advocated the legalization of rape and child molestation? If they were trying to be challenging and controversial the only thing that has been accomplished here is the confirmation that supporters of this idea are not only misguided and bored but border on being misogynistic.

The main concern for me and the part that has me very confused is the number of females who were right in there supporting the whole premise. It didn’t seem to bother them that they were backing the idea that it is perfectly OK to force a young girl to have sex whether she wants to or not. So how young is too young? I mean underage is just that isn’t it? So when is it OK to feed alcohol to a 12 year old to the point where she is not aware or able to cry out for help? What ever happened to the arguments that women have been putting up for years now that say they and they alone are the arbiters of what they decide to do with their bodies? These young women who have supported this lunacy have set that whole discussion back to the stone ages. Truly now, if this was their sister we are talking about would they really feel the same way? Would they be all for it? And where are the women’s groups? I haven’t heard a great deal of criticism or dialogue involving those who have been advocating a ‘different’ deal for women. At the very least a clear statement of some kind speaking about respect and equality. Even just a touch of outrage.

And the men-I can’t call them men.  Are the males who support this so challenged and so unable to attract and develop a sexual relationship with someone who is functioning, emotionally, at about the same level that they need to pick on young girls who really are not equipped with the critical thinking that goes along with giving permission to share themselves with someone else in a meaningful way?  As a man, I’m embarrassed to say that this whole idea is about the same as reducing sex to scratching an itch on their ass. It is a conquest and a power-grab not an emotional act of any kind. This type of behavior is what clearly illustrates the growing lack of respect for self and others that seems to be so prevalent in the youth of today.

I have an adult son and daughter. My son and his wife have blessed us with a beautiful granddaughter. She’s two years old. If what this chant is promoting ever happened to either daughter or granddaughter, at any age, and I were to confront the perpetrators I would not report them. I might, however, bind their testicles with a liberal piece of piano wire secured to the bumper of my car and let them know that for as long as they can run they can keep them attached.

Perhaps a bit radical but then again so is this absurd idea that it’s OK to take what you can regardless of how the other person feels about things.

That’s how I see it anyway, Jim”

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Truth Talkin’ Thursday: Episode #100

Jane and I talk about fear in a different context than the usual one. We also talk about the reasons we started doing Truth Talkin’ Thursdays and what it means to work in service to others. We share what each of us got from speaking out and where we hope to go from here. Check it out to see how you could become a part of what we are doing. Let us know at: jim.lifechoice@gmail.com  OR  jterdik@hotmail.com

https://youtu.be/SSW7E3Pq48Y

Where Have All The Voices Gone?

As I periodically tune into what is happening in the United States and I wonder what has become of the once proud and globally respected nation it was, I question where have all the voices gone? Unfortunately the few Republicans who still garner any kind of respect from those out side of Trump’s puppets have lost their voices. It’s the worst case of collective laryngitis ever recorded in the history of “their” country as Trump calls it.

I have stayed away from spending time swiping at and castigating Trump and his posse. They continue to dominate the news broadcasts on a regular basis to the point where CNN has dedicated several prime time spots to providing a regular report of the lunatics at work. These spots have become part of their broadcast menu.  CNN has complained about the tactics that Trump employs to deflect interest or attention from screw ups or poorly thought out policy decisions he has made. Yet they promote these deflections by pointing out or focusing on the fact that he is doing it again–HELLO CNN-you guys are becoming part of his tactic. How much important national or global business stuff has happened in the last while besides insulting Canada on any occasion he can take advantage of? I speak here about NAFTA which is now the USMCA as demanded by Trump.

It is truly a sad and very poorly developed soap opera. I get that he is truly a mentally ill human being. There can be no doubt about this fact–no fake news here. According to the DSM-5 he exhibits most if not all of the characteristics of NPD–Narcissistic Personality Disorder. There are many who also suggest he demonstrates many of the signs of being a Sociopath. Good guy to have near the button–right?

It seems, however, that folks have become less interested in what he has accomplished and more interested in knowing or hearing about what craziness and absurdities he has conjured up now. TV news programs are becoming obsessed with being the one who brought him “down.” They really do go beyond the news that we need to know sometimes. Is the world any closer to getting rid of this sad soul? I’ll believe that when I see it happen. I still believe that if there was a total blackout of public news broadcasts concerning Donald J. Trump he would disappear as well or do something so outrageous that they would finally remove him from office. The powers that be would need to be sure that the regulatory infrastructure-the checks and balances designed to ensure that no one can run away with the keys to Fort Knox, weren’t in his pocket. Then shut him out of the “limelight.” He MUST be in the headlines all the time–at least he believes so in order for him to flourish.

The title of this article is “Where have all the voices gone?” Indeed-where have they gone? Where have the women’s groups gone. We haven’t heard much from them in quite awhile. It’s difficult to believe that there are any self-respecting women out there who would vote for this guy ever again. If they gathered together to join forces they could almost take him out all by themselves. He has done things to women or supports everything that women tell us they despise. Well ladies we are not seeing or hearing a great deal of that sentiment voiced out there right now or ever since he got into the White House for that matter. There needs to be daily or weekly protests and marches . Women’s groups need to show up at his rallies and disrupt things a bit. “Me Too” sure kicked up some dust in their beginning but not so much these days.

The only disgrace that is being talked about in Washington these days is the fact that Kavanaugh has had to defend himself (Mitch McConnell). I submit that the only disgrace is that he still has a chance to sit on the Supreme Court Bench. All this and I haven’t mentioned the African American community. How can African Americans of ANY political stripe or religion cast a single vote for this guy. Short memories I guess. I wonder what ML King would have said? How can any African American citizen support this guy when he openly supports the White Supremacists. And where have the “balls” that used to be tied to Mitch McConnell, Paul Ryan, Lindsey Graham, Marco Rubio, Rand Paul to name a few–gone. At least Jeff Flake was able to find his and only because he didn’t have to fear the wrath of Donald J. Trump. Sen. Flake is not running for re-election. It’s like these guys were neutered or something. How much is enough guys or has everything decent that the US had stood for been sold off to the highest bidder? Where have all the voices gone?

Anyways, that’s how I see things, All the best and thanks for stopping by, Jim

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