Margaret Court, one of the best tennis players of her time and arguably of all time, spoke her mind today regarding her thoughts and feelings about the state and identity of Women’s Tennis. Martina Navratilova responded by calling Ms. Court a racist and a homophobe. It seems that it is OK for Martina to call Margaret all sorts of things but not OK for Margaret to speak her mind about the number of lesbians in Tennis these days. Perhaps what has to change here is that what is fair for one needs to be fair for all and let the good graces of people be the true judge and jury of what has been said and how it was said. Grow some thicker skin folks. If you don’t like what she said then exercise YOUR right to say so by emailing Margaret and telling her how you feel about what she said.
Wah-wah-wah. The words spoken from both sides may have been hurtful or may have been ill-advised. Get over it. My wah-wah-wah is that once again political correctness rules the day. I say let the two work it out in private as it should be. Perhaps we need to change the way we see each other. Let’s try seeing each other as human beings first and let’s try treating each other as equals instead of he is this or she is that stuff. Let’s try treating each other with the respect that we ALL deserve not just one side of the equation.
Change is not always a bad thing. Sometimes it’s a good thing. Why do people get so upset with the idea of change? Why do we, as people, resist change? Fear of the unknown? Change is the only constant in our lives. The change from superstition to science was a good thing for medicine and for us. The change from traveling by car or train to flying on a jet was a good thing for us. Who would have believed that a 747, which weighs about 450 tons, would be able to get off the ground let alone fly at close to 50,000 feet at around 600miles per hour, fully loaded, and could carry approximately 400 people at a time. Change will continue to happen and we need to get our heads around the fact that this is not nor does it have to be a bad thing for us.
The one area of change that will happen and it desparately needs to happen has to do with how and what we are teaching our children. We need to be demanding wholesale changes to the education system before we find ourselves so out of touch that our children can’t find good paying jobs to support their families. International businesses are telling us that. Other governments are telling us this. Some schools are telling us that as well. Our system is NOT preparing our college and university graduates with the skills that are requisite for future career choices. Take the example of Finland, who has developed one of the most progressive and successful educational systems in the world to see what needs to come. (Click on the highlighted link for more information that is truly necessary for parents to read and know more about)
There are three solid reasons that indicate what we need to change about how we go about educating our children. These reasons are part of why many of our children are struggling at school.
- We are using a system that had been created during the Industrial age back from the early 1900’s. Technology has changed, forced really, the focus of what our children need to be learning-now-so they can be competitive in the global marketplace when they graduate.
- Children are struggling with disinterest and boredom in classrooms because of the older curriculum still being offered. Kid’s are much more savvy concerning the use of technology to gather information. They don’t need ‘books’ anymore. The internet has all the information they require to learn the basic skills. We need to be teaching them how to think and not what to remember.
- Children should be telling the system what they want to study not the system telling the kids what they will study. The kids need to pick a course of study because they are the only ones who know what their true interests are.
There are so many more compelling reasons why education and how it is delivered is so vitally important and the change is coming in style and content whether we like it or not. We need to get out in front of this while there is time to change the programs so that our kids will have a chance to succeed.
A Forward Thinking Program: A New Look Educating And Preparing Our Children For The 21st Century:
More on this program in the weeks to come. Our’s is a program that we begn putting together 2 years ago. The research was done and some great solutions provided. My colleague and I have finished the 3rd draft of our proposal so we will be able to present it publicly shortly. We feel confident that our program would deal with reducing the drop-out rates among our kids, will help to restore interest and excitement, will help our kids clarify their career choices when university arrives, it will help to reduce costs and reduce levels of gang membership, trouble with the legal system, deal with substance abuse issues and more. The change will help all of this to happen but as a community of concerned parents and caregivers we have to embrace change and not fear it or be concerned about it.
Truth Talkin’ Thursday:
Jane and I talked about the three types of people neither of us can stand being around and why we feel that way. Just go to U-Tube and type in Truth Talkin’ Thursday: Episode 34 to get the rest of the story. See if some of your choices are the same as ours.
That’s how I see things anyways, All the best, Jim
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